The deafening silence where you once heard their voice. Your empty chest now cavernously hollow.

Missing them so much it’s physically painful.

Grief is hard to bear, especially when the loss was complicated, violent, sudden, unexpected, when the relationship was conflicted, or when the one who is gone was supposed to outlive you.

Grief coaching is not therapy because grief is not a mental illness. Grief work is not passive.

It is directive and task oriented to accomplish goals of grief.

And by the way: “closure” is NOT a goal.

You want to create peace.

You want to find a new way to maintain a relationship with them, even though they are physically absent.

I can help you grieve productively. I will help you relocate them into your heart and create an enduring internal bond. We will work on a new identity that includes them but will not let their absence define you. Love and grief can be beautiful. I can help you accomplish this.